Hymen question (for mature girls only) ?

Okay I'm 13 years old and I started my vary first period about a half a year ago and my friend Anna came over and we where going to the pool when I got my period and so I put in a tampon for the first real time and that was okay I guess and we for back and I went to go take it out and I took a Mirror and I pulled the string and my hymen (cherry) was in the middle of the crease of the tampon.... Ouch! So I moved the hymen and pulled it out it hurt! I told my step mom and she said let's goto the Gino and I said no bc I'm scared! So I forgot about that and today I tried it agin and well it got stuck this time my hymen was white like where it was pulling at and it was like blinding in with the tampon well I got it out with out breaking it...... And I was wondering how close was I to breaking it? Bc it didn't hurt that much..... Thanks for answering~ Mia